The Lazy Song

May 5, 2012 4 Comments 14 tags
Very cute video.  As I was on my treadmill, struggling with running after not having run for several days, I ...

doing the next right thing

April 20, 2012 0 Comments 12 tags
Sometimes our thinking can get in the way of progress.  We complicate things beyond recognition and become immobilized.  The concept ...

Cognitive Distortion – Overgeneralization

April 1, 2012 0 Comments 17 tags
Overgeneralization is a type of cognitive distortion where an individual generalizes a negative view based on one, or limited, experience. In ...

secondary gain

March 18, 2012 0 Comments 14 tags
One thing to look at when thinking about unremitting problems is what is the secondary gain from staying stuck?  Just as ...

no magic wand, no crystal ball

March 2, 2012 0 Comments 13 tags
The therapist only knows what you tell them.  Sure, if the therapist has experience, they could probably surmise some things ...

pass the scalpel, please

February 26, 2012 0 Comments 10 tags
If you are contemplating going into therapy for the first time, chances are you are not in a good place ...

making changes

February 19, 2012 0 Comments 13 tags
Anaïs Nin: “And the day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the ...

practice makes progress

February 12, 2012 0 Comments 12 tags
Practice makes progress.  You can aspire to perfect, possibly, but only if this aspiration does not leave you feeling like ...

doing the next right thing

January 29, 2012 0 Comments 4 tags
Setting goals; thinking about making changes can be very overwhelming.  We can write lists; read books; talk to others and ...